Staying Alive is Not Enough -5-

I like that comparison, it's so suggestive !

It it better to live what you think good than to try to please others !

"When you are ready" means that you have got everything clear with yourself haven't you ?

Hi Gérard, everyone !
I like to talk about "the field of possibilities" among young people.  Nowadays they refuse to settle down before the age of 30 because they want to explore all the possibilities. They want to travel, not to have a regular partner, a regular job too soon.  
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emerging_adulthood_and_early_adulthood

Jeffrey  Arnett suggests emerging adulthood is the distinct period between 18 and 25 years of age where adolescents become more independent and explore various life possibilities

Hi Gérard
The problem with families is that the members stick labels to one another and it is very difficult to get free from that. It must be better to hang around with people who accept you for who you are.

> people who accept you for who you are.
The problem remains Muriel, after years people can change.

Gérard, it is important in that sense not to remain in a closed group.

The solution would be to repeat with your own words what you think you have understood. When the person you are speaking to agrees, you can then reply.


Easier said than done of course !

Guy Béart said that  "The first one who said the truth must be executed" so it is better not to say the truth before everyone else

Lol

gerardM a écrit:

be Good but don't allow  everything, don't let people become naughty !Continued on  page 26