communicating

why too many messages make us want to throw our phones at the wall ?

=>Text anxiety: why too many messages make us want to throw our phones at the wall | Life and style | The Guardian

As the pressure to be online and always available continues to grow in our society, in-person interactions provide far more authentic communication than digital ones. From body language and tone of voice to eye contact and all the other social cues that exist in real life that aren’t available in a text message, it’s far easier to be present when you’re face-to-face.

There are 3 types of communication
Interpersonal communication: connects two individuals.
Group communication: a sender addresses several targeted receivers.
Mass communication: a sender addresses the largest possible number of receivers.


For a conversation between two people, face to face has a huge advantage because body language and tone of voice allow for more authenticity. The telephone can be a substitute as well as all the nice little messages sent on different internet channels 
To create a group spirit, a WhatsApp, Messenger or Facebook group allows a superficial exchange of ideas and informs about events and gives some news about its members
To get ideas across to as many people as possible, we can use the press and advertisements, but there is no feedback and we don't know exactly the impact on people



To exchange ideas (or news) we can use Fb which allows an immediate return thanks to "likes and comments" but we can only communicate with our FB friends and we cannot classify anything
you can also create a Forum that allows ideas to be transmitted(on the forum or with the Newsletter) to all visitors and members, allows them to be classified and allows an exchange with members about the ideas

A conversation in which neither party is listening to the other was dubbed a “duologue” by Abraham Kaplan, a philosopher who died in 1993. A duologue, he suggested, is more than a monologue but less than a dialogue. 

Lily a écrit:Deep listening is to drop the ego and to listen with compassionate attention and open-heartedness

 It focuses on three aspects of communication: self-empathy (defined as a deep and compassionate awareness of one's own inner experience), empathy (defined as listening to another with deep compassion), and honest self-expression(defined as expressing oneself authentically in a way that is likely to inspire compassion in others).

Rosenberg has used Nonviolent Communication in peaceprograms in conflict zones including Rwanda, Burundi, Nigeria, Malaysia, Indonesia, Sri Lanka, Colombia, Serbia, Croatia, Ireland, and the Middle East including the Occupied Palestinian Territories.